Hi Karen,
Im glad you posted, it reminded me of my first post about this time last year!
Im coz 39yr ( 40 this yr like Lizzy) two girls 18yrs, 13yrs, managed to get back to work , as Fiona I did find this first yr tough, so many changes, but glad to have nras for support, understanding, laughs etc keep posting
Take care
love Corinne (coz) xxxx